There are somethings in life that you only get, once you stop desiring it.
Many things come into that format.
You want something so bad that you lose it.
And people who care less about it, end up getting it.
You see this in relationships, people who go into successful relationships most often are the ones who don’t need that to be happy, it is just a healthy addition to their lives.
You see this in the job market. The desperate ones eventually don’t get the job.
Life then, becomes a game of balancing desire and self sufficiency.
It becomes a dance, where sometimes you give in more, and sometimes you take some. Interested, non caring, interested again, non caring again.
Is it the same with everyone, or am I just the only one with this experience?